I have never had a tweet retweeted so much, my phone has been blowing up so much that my girlfriend made me turn off notifications.I couldn’t even bring myself to finish the VF article.
Men in New York treat women terribly and brag about it in Vanity Fair. The VF article is a retread of a topic that’s been beaten to death by the media and dating bloggers for almost two years, but VF decided to hang out with a bunch of New Yorkers who rack up Tinder sex-mates like there’s no tomorrow and talk to them like they are adults or something.And Tinder is at the bottom of the pile, along with Ashley Madison.In New York legs are spreading like there’s no tomorrow and in Japan people are so timid they have to date pillows and robots and fake women on texting services. Can someone go to Japan and help those poor people out? 62% of Tinder users are actually in a relationship. Remember what happened with Ashley Madison last month? By that time we’ll be so callous towards each other that everyone will just laugh. How many of those swipes are artificially inflated by spammers and bots? What is the equivalent of a right-swipe on a dating service? If I email you and you email me back, that’s a match. Back when he was the Co-founder of Ok Cupid, and they always said Match wasn’t worth the money and nobody should have to pay for a dating site. $90 million for Sam and his team and now he’s at the helm of the company that’s changing society in ways they can’t stop, or even fathom because they’re right in the middle of it. Maybe Mandy Ginsberg got out of Match at the right time.“Honey, you know, it was just me and the guys having fun at the bar.”Can we talk about the 26 million matches made every day on Tinder? She’s now the CEO of The Princeton Review and on the board of JC Penny. Tinder’s definition of a match as two people physically moving their fingers about a quarter of an inch to the right compared with writing and responding to emails. You do understand that acquisitions like POF are arranged years in advance, right? $575M for a company where what, 20% of it’s users leave every month! Online dating is barely recognizable from when I started covering it in 2002. The dates she liked didn't write her back, and her own profile attracted crickets (and worse).So, as any fan of data would do: she started making a spreadsheet.
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The writer clearly emerged from a cave last week and the first thing they did was go on a Tinder date and now she’s scarred for life.
Surprised the cover photo wasn’t an Annie Liebowitz-styled image of a 24-year old guy in a $2,500 suit crawling down a fire escape at 4am while looking at Tinder, on his way to conquer one more target before dragging himself back to his $6,000 a month apartment he shares with a bunch of neckbeards learning how to code while working at Venture-funded almost-hot Startup X.“It’s an eye-opener and validation of a woman’s worst fear.
The guys are swiping right to hook up and it’s all just a game.” Give me a break.
The women who enable men to behave this way are just as complicit in the degradation of modern courtship as Tinder is.